In almost three decades of working in hotel commercial optimization, I’ve been fortunate to work with some of the world’s greatest asset managers (AMs). I’ve had a front-row seat while they launched new hotel brands, rebranded legacy properties, and turned around struggling hotel assets. They made impossible real estate transactions seem easy and turned completely lost hotels into profit-making machines.
On the flip side, I also encountered a few well-intentioned asset managers who inadvertently sabotaged the hotels they were meant to optimize. Of course, it is the disaster hotel projects that have taught me the most. Nothing teaches like failure: you employ the same winning strategies and work just as hard, but unfortunately end up with a completely different outcome.
In the hotel real estate game, an asset manager either drives exceptional value or becomes the biggest obstacle to success. They’re the critical link between operations, commercial efforts, finance, brands, banks, and owners. Heavy is the head that wears the asset management crown.
Let’s start with two hard facts.
Hotel Operations Are Getting More Expensive
Labor, insurance, and utilities are skyrocketing globally and drastically changing the economics of running a hotel. Labor costs have increased 20% to 30% since 2019, while insurance premiums have gone up 2X or even 3X for properties in some regions. Energy costs remain volatile, and tariff/supply disruptions have driven up the cost of everything from linens to cleaning supplies.
Chasing top-line revenue these days, while ignoring acquisition costs and the expense of servicing those newly acquired guests, is a race to the bottom. Every guest comes with incremental costs (housekeeping, utilities, amenities, wear and tear, etc). Then there are acquisition costs (paid media ads, OTA commissions, etc) that were needed to compete and capture demand in the first place. Margins are eroding top-line growth so much that even when revenue is up, it feels like you are building a sandcastle on the beach at high tide.
NOI Is King
I learned this lesson early from one of the industry’s asset management legends. Back then, I was obsessed with revenue growth, outpacing the competition, and celebrating top-line wins. During one project, we replaced a prominent brand at a major city-center asset and executed it perfectly. Revenues soared! I was flying high and then the AM told me something life-altering:
“Vikram, this business is all about NOI. Nothing else matters.”
The best asset managers understand that Net Operating Income is the only metric that truly counts. Vanity metrics like ADR (Average Daily Rate) and RevPAR (Revenue Per Available Room) mean nothing if they don’t flow to the bottom line. It’s like bragging about your gym session while eating a sleeve of Oreos.
Even EBITDA (Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation, and Amortization) can be massaged through accounting tricks. NOI hits differently. It’s the unvarnished truth of operating performance; it dictates cap rate and terminal value. Rational buyers don’t pay for good vibes, top-line revenue, market share, or five-star reviews. They buy cash flow. Period.
Top 6 Traits of Great Asset Managers
Great asset managers operate differently. They are exceptional because they are:
1. Chief Troubleshooting Officers
When crisis hits (and in hotels, it always does), great asset managers don’t panic, deflect, or wait for someone else to fix it. They step in and make the right calls.
I’ve watched them operate during natural disasters, lender meltdowns, team implosions, and other crises that would paralyze lesser mortals. No finger-pointing. No useless committee meetings or elaborate emails…just clear-headed decision-making under pressure.
When the proverbial “s*itstorm” hits, they manage the crisis, fix problems, and then position the property to emerge stronger on the other side.
2. Messengers of Reality
Great asset managers tell owners the truth about their asset. No “glazing,” as the kids say these days! They definitely do not fuel “we’re the greatest hotel in the world and there is nobody like us” delusions.
If the elevators sound like they’re auditioning for a horror movie and the carpet hasn’t been replaced since the Obama administration, they’re not going to be presenting a luxury hotel budget. They explain to the owners that you can’t charge $500 a night for a property that smells like a mix of wet dog, nostalgia, and teen spirit.
They keep post renovation expectations grounded. An asset refresh does not equate to the discovery of the lost city of Atlantis when you’re writing press releases.
When major capital investment is genuinely needed, they fight for it with data and realistic projections that make owners reach for their checkbooks. When capital investment is not feasible, they right-size expectations and find creative ways to compete within the asset’s current reality.
3. Protecting Margins Like Their Life Depends on It
Great asset managers obsess over the unglamorous details that others ignore: laundry contracts, valet costs, energy procurement, insurance renewals, technology stack efficiency, and vendor consolidation.They know small line items can quietly erode profitability like termites in the foundation. A outdated/bloated tech stack here, an auto-renewed contract there—death by a thousand small cuts.
While everyone else is hypnotized by top-line revenue, great AMs are in the weeds ensuring that the bottom line doesn’t hemorrhage cash. These days, effective cost management is key to delivering NOI.
4. Empowering, Not Micromanaging
Great AMs trust their operators to operate and their commercial teams to drive revenue. They set clear KPIs, remove barriers, provide resources, and then do something amazing: get out of the way.
They understand their job is to create conditions for success, not to cosplay as the GM, revenue manager, or marketing director. They don’t need to approve every decision, be cc’d on every email, or weigh in on whether the lobby should have red or yellow flowers on Tuesdays.
They hire smart people, give them the tools and autonomy to succeed, and hold them accountable to outcomes, not processes. When wins happen, they amplify rather than claim credit. In return, the hotel teams move faster, innovate more, and stick around longer.
5. Making Hard Decisions
This is where great asset managers truly separate themselves: they make the painful calls everyone else wants to avoid.
When the numbers say it’s time to exit a failing management contract, they don’t kick the can down the road for another quarter. Instead, they pull the trigger, own the decision, and manage the transition. When a vendor relationship has turned toxic or a key team member isn’t performing despite multiple chances, they don’t hope the problem fixes itself. They act.
Likewise, when they have to deliver bad news to ownership (ex: market reality has shifted, renovations are needed), they never throw the team under the bus to save face. They take ownership, explain what changed, present a clear path forward. They protect their team’s credibility while solving the problem.
6. Catalysts, Not Oversight Overlords
Great asset managers create energy in the room. When they walk into a strategy session, the team doesn’t reach for excuses—they reach for their best ideas. People lean in instead of checking out.
They show up to catch people doing things right and amplify it. They celebrate wins genuinely (no cringe-worthy “yay team” stuff). They dissect losses without blame, and constantly ask: “What can I do to help?”
This isn’t some soft-skills fluff…it’s strategic leadership that directly impacts NOI. Engaged teams will innovate. Empowered revenue managers deliver stronger yields. Empowered sales directors close more business. Operations teams that feel trusted take ownership of problems instead of hiding them until they metastasize into mega disasters.
Micromanaged, anxious employees deliver the minimum to avoid getting yelled at. Great AMs know you can’t fake genuine hospitality, and you cannot terrorize people into excellence.
Top 6 Traits of Mediocre Asset Managers
For every great asset manager driving real NOI growth, there are many others who live for reports, set too many meetings, and somehow leave the property worse off than when they arrived. They are what Bill Murray would call “mediocre talent.” Mediocre AMs:
1. Over-Promise and Under-Deliver
This is the most dangerous trait: they create a fantasy for ownership that has zero basis in reality.
They specialize in building budgets designed to make owners swoon during the approval meeting. They end up promising things like 20% or 30% revenue growth in a year when the hotel is undergoing renovations or when the economy is softer than the hotel pillows!
When reality inevitably arrives, they blame everyone but themselves: the GM didn’t execute, the commercial team underperformed, rates were either too aggressive or not aggressive enough, the weather didn’t cooperate, Jupiter wasn’t aligned, Mercury was in retrograde, etc.
The result? Ownership loses faith in the entire team, team morale fizzles out, capital allocation gets frozen, and the property falls further behind because no one knows what numbers to trust anymore. It’s that “Highway To Hell” that ACDC talks about, filled with Excel spreadsheets of broken dreams.
2. Obsess Over Meetings
Some asset managers believe progress is measured in hours spent in meetings. Their calendars look like Tetris on expert mode: daily stand-ups, weekly syncs, bi-weekly deep dives, monthly reviews, quarterly planning sessions, and the dreaded “quick touch-base” that is never quick.
The problem: If your commercial/sales/ops team spends all day in meetings explaining what they’re doing, when are they actually doing it? Every hour spent building custom reports for yet another status update is an hour not spent optimizing rates or analyzing competitor positioning or making that group sale. As I have said in detail here, meetings don’t generate revenue. They cost a lot!
3. Miss the Forest for the Trees
They don’t see the big picture. They spend site visits checking for dust on baseboards or critiquing the breakfast buffet presentation. Meanwhile, food and energy costs have spiked 15% over last year!
They’ll spot a crooked picture frame from 50 feet away, but somehow miss that the PMS crashes twice daily and the night auditor has been running reports on a calculator since the last Winter Olympics.
Mediocre asset managers confuse activity with impact, visibility with value, and being present with being helpful. They return from site visits with a list of cosmetic fixes, while the property continues to hemorrhage cash due to core issues that need urgent attention.
4. Use Data as a Weapon Instead of a Tool
Mediocre asset managers wield data like a weapon, but not for good…they just need to be right at all costs.
Every variance report becomes an inquisition, and every monthly review feels like a deposition. This doesn’t inspire excellence; it inspires self-preservation or what the youth call “quiet quitting.” Hotel teams stop taking smart risks and start building defensive documentation trails. Energy shifts from “how do we win?” to “how do I prove this wasn’t my fault?” The best people leave first. The rest quietly disengage, doing the minimum to avoid being the next target. Data should illuminate the path forward, not persecute the people walking on it.
5. Dodge Decisions
Mediocre AMs are constitutionally incapable of making hard decisions. They can spot a problem from a mile away, analyze it across seventeen pivot tables, and discuss it in nine consecutive meetings — but actually do something about it? That’s where their courage evaporates.
Underperforming employees are put on a performance improvement plan for months. Everyone knows it’s theater at this point, but the hard decision keeps getting delayed. The management contract is bleeding money and destroying morale, but “let’s give it another quarter.” The director of sales hasn’t closed a meaningful piece of business in six months, but “everybody likes him, he deserves another chance.” You get the picture.
Meanwhile, these problems compound. Good employees watch bad ones get coddled and update their LinkedIn profiles accordingly. When the inevitable disaster finally strikes, these AMs blame the property team with breathtaking hypocrisy. The “Why didn’t you tell me it was this bad?” email arrives like clockwork, conveniently ignoring the ten messages flagging that exact issue. But nobody made the hard call.
6. Destroy Hotel Morale and Profitability
The average cost to replace a hotel GM or department head at a 4-star property is roughly 150% of their annual salary when you factor in recruiting, training, lost productivity, and local market knowledge walking out the door. If an asset manager is driving turnover every 6 to 12 months in key roles, they’re not managing the asset…they are incinerating ownership’s capital.
Fear-based cultures don’t innovate. As noted above, team members who don’t feel supported stop taking smart risks and eventually start leaving. The hotel industry is shockingly small and well connected. Word travels fast about AMs who burn people to make themselves look good. Bad asset management doesn’t just hurt current performance, but also limits future potential. Once a property becomes known as a revolving door run by a toxic asset manager, top talent won’t touch it.
Conclusion
Working with great asset managers has been transformational for me, both personally and professionally. When the right asset manager takes over a hotel, there’s a palpable shift in energy and momentum. They don’t sell fairy tales or rely on wishful thinking. They build strategies rooted in reality and execute them through empowered teams they genuinely trust.
If you’re an owner, demand better! Your capital investment deserves an asset manager who treats NOI like a religion, not a suggestion. If you’re an asset manager, aspire to be the person hotel teams are excited to see. If you’re a team member or vendor, take note of which kind of AM you’re working with before taking on a new project. It’s one of the best predictors of the asset’s potential for success…and your potential job satisfaction.



